¡ÚThe Bible is the best textbook on dating, and THIS is the best dating book!
¡ÚAn insight into love found in an old love letter!
¡ÚThe great & little mystery of dreaming of the kingdom of God
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The author has established A Theology of Dating with insights from his old and peculiar love letter. This book deals with how to start a relationship, the will and emotions of love, sexual desire and physical contact, and the attitude of parting, containing rich examples of ministry fields that he guides young people. Dating and marriage have continuity and discontinuity. Marriage is called a ¡°great mystery,¡± and dating is a ¡°little mystery.¡± He conveys the guidelines for dating and the principles of the life of faith at the same time.
In addition, the author emphasizes that the criteria for choosing a mate should be each other¡¯s mission. In particular, what sustains the marriage is the covenant itself rather than the love of a married couple, and lasting love must be supplied in Christ. He says the Love Chapter is the sum total of all love in the world and the supremacy of love that humans can recognize. Defining love as an operation of the will accompanied by emotion, he biblically deals with true love and dating, marriage and family, childbirth and nurture, etc.
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Foreword _005
Prologue _012
Chapter 1. The Basis For A Theology of Dating _017
A Peculiar Love Letter
A View of Dating Impracticable?
No Difference in Dating Standards
Two Perspectives on Dating and Marriage
A Theology of Dating and A Theology of Marriage
Dating for God¡¯s Glory
The Couple in the Same Direction!
Everyday Life¡¯s Direction
Marriage Is a Great Mystery
Dating Is a Little Mystery
| Questions for Sharing and Application |
Chapter 2. Existential Love and Conceptual Love _049
How Can We Define Love? (1)
How Can We Define Love? (2)
Is Love an Emotion?
Is Love a Will?
Love, the Will Accompanied by Emotion
Dating Like Artificial Flowers
This Is What Sustains Love!
| Questions for Sharing and Application |
Chapter 3. Biblical Principles for Dating _075
The Reality of the ¡°Same Direction¡±
How Do I Build My Will? (1)
How Do I Build My Will? (2)
A Dating Story Related to Mission
Is It Appointed? Is It My Choice? (1)
Is It Appointed? Is It My Choice? (2)
| Questions for Sharin...g and Application |
Chapter 4. Loving God & Loving Mate _103
Convergence of Love
The Convergence of Sin and The Triangle of Love
It¡¯s Not a Division-Allotment Concept!
Do Love God Much More!
| Questions for Sharing and Application |
Chapter 5. Physical Contact and Symptoms of Love _121
Keep the Purity Before Marriage!
Appropriate Level of Physical Contact (1)
Appropriate Level of Physical Contact (2)
¡°You Trust Me, Right?¡±
True Symptoms of Love
Sexual Desire and Spiritual Desire
| Questions for Sharing and Application |
Chapter 6. Church Reality and Actual Dating _153
Difficult Reality to Find a Mate
Dating Issue with Non-Christians
Let¡¯s Lower Our Standards a Bit!
The Roles of Men and Women in Dating
Community-Oriented Dating
Don¡¯t Be Afraid to Break Up!
Summary and Advice on Dating
| Questions for Sharing and Application |
Chapter 7. Marriage and Married Life _185
Correcting the Concept of First Love
Three Principles of Covenant Marriage
Marriage Is Based on God!
Covenant, the Power That Causes the Duty of Love
Childbirth and Nurture
| Questions for Sharing and Application |
Epilogue _208
Appendix: A Wedding Ceremony Sermon _211
Bibliography _217
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